how we think about other people and then we'll talk about

我们如何看待他人然后讨论
how we think about groups like Harvard students or gay people or black people.

我们如何看待像哈佛学生或同性恋或黑人这样的群体
I'll start with my favorite finding of all time and this is about the self.

我将从我最喜欢的研究结果开始这是有关自我的内容
And this is about the spotlight effect. So, my mornings are often rushed

有关焦点效应我每天早晨都很匆忙
because I have two kids. So, I get up and sometimes I don't set the alarm

因为我有两个孩子有时我没有定闹钟
and I get up late; I stagger out of bed; I wake the kids;

就会起晚我挣扎着下床把孩子们叫起来
I greet the servants; I get ready; I make breakfast.

问候佣人做好准备做早餐
I run out of the house and then usually around 3 o'clock somebody points out,

我冲出房间通常在大概下午三点时有人会说
in one case a homeless man, that I have a big glob of shaving cream in my ear or

某次是一个流浪汉说我耳朵上有一大块剃须膏
because I neglected to actually look in the mirror while I shaved.

因为我剃须时都没心思看镜子
Or I have once been to a party and I found my shirt was misaligned,

又一次我参加一个派对我发现我的衬衫上没穿正
seriously misaligned, not one button but--Anyway,

严重地没穿正不是一个扣子