healthy,happy environment, people don't scream at you about how bad you're doing

健康的欢乐的环境中人们不会因为你做错事而尖叫
but they compliment how good you are and

而在你做得好时称赞你
that could lead to an inflated self-esteem

这可能会导致人们在某些方面产生
on the part of people in certain domains.

膨胀性的自我评价
Another possibility is there's different criteria for goodness.

另一个可能是好的标准不一样
For a driver, for instance, when I ask you to rank how good you are as a driver,

例如好司机的标准当我问你们评价自己开车怎样时
what people often do is they think--they say, "I'm better than average,"

人们通常会认为他们会说我比一般人好些
but what they do is they focus on one aspect of their driving.

但人们关注的往往只是开车的一个方面
So, some of you might say,

有人可能说
"Hey, I'm just a great parallel parker so I'm a great driver."

我停车停得很好所以我是个好司机
Others might say, "I'm very careful, great driver."

其他人可能说我非常小心所以我是好司机
Others might say, "I take chances no one else will--great driver,"

还有人可能说我插队插得比别人好所以我是好司机