来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：心理学导论 第16集 第16集》

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  you are better than average in every possible way, each one of you.
  我们自认为在所有方面都比优于平均水平 每个人都如此
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  And finally, what you do makes sense. If it doesn't make sense, you'll--
  最后 你所做的都是合理的 如果所做的并不合理 你会
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  If it doesn't make sense or, more to the point,
  如果真的不合理 再直接点说
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  if it's something that you do that's foolish
  如果你做了些愚蠢的事情
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  or makes you look manipulative or cheap,
  或让自己显得很工于心计 或廉价
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  you'll distort it in your head so that it does make sense.
  你就会捏造理由说服自己这是合理的
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  I want to move now to how we think about self and other,
  下面我讲讲我们是怎么看待自己和他人的
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  how we think about ourselves relative to how we think about other people.
  我们对自己的看法和对别人的看法之间存在什么关系
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  And this brings us to the notion of attribution.
  这就涉及到归因的概念
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  So,an attribution is a claim about the cause of somebody's behavior and Heider--
  归因是指对个体的行为原因的解释 海德
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  Now, there's all sorts of reasons for somebody's behavior.
  个体的行为原因有很多种
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  Suppose you insult me or suppose you're very kind to me.
  假设你冒犯了我或假设你对我很好