来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：心理学导论 第16集 第16集》

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  we talked about it when we talked about sexual attractiveness.
  我们在讨论性吸引时讨论过这个问题
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  We like people who are honest, who are kind, who are smart, who are funny,
  我们喜欢诚实 善良 聪明 有趣的人
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  but study after study finds more fundamental processes
  但不断有研究表明还有其他一些心理过程
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  are also at work and here is a list of three of them.
  起了作用 以下是其中三条
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  One is proximity. We tend to like people who we're close to physically,
  第一是邻近性 我们容易喜欢身体上距离较近的人
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  who we are physically and spatially close to, who we spend a lot of time with.
  喜欢身体 空间上离我们近的人 喜欢经常和我们相处的人
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  In one study they looked at a housing project in Manhattan
  在一项研究中 他们查看了曼哈顿的住宅项目
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  and they asked people where their best friend was and 90% of them said,
  然后问人们 他们最好的朋友在哪里 百分之九十的人都说
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  "My best friend is in the same building as me,"
  我最好的朋友和我住在同一栋楼里
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  and 50% of them says the same floor.
  百分之五十的人说在同一层
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  Ask yourself who is your best friend at Yale.
  想想自己 你在耶鲁最好的朋友是谁
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  For how many of you is it somebody in your same college?
  有多少人最好的朋友和你在同一个学院