来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：心理学导论第14集》

some of them asking,

对有些人问的是
"Who do you want to marry?"

你想和谁结婚
Other studies,

还有的问
"Who do you want as a mate?

你想有个什么样的伴侣
Who do you want as a sexual partner?"

你想要个什么样的性伴侣
And one main finding is kind of reassuring,

其中一个主要发现非常靠谱
everybody likes kindness and intelligence,

每个人都喜欢善良聪明的
or at least everybody says

或至少每个人都说
they like kindness and intelligence.

他们喜欢善良聪明的
These are valued pretty highly.

而且对此权重非常高
But at the same time, there are sex differences.

但同时还是存在性别差异的
Females focus more on power and status

女性更加关注权力和地位