And these are relatively straightforward.

这个定义相对来说很直白
He argued that you don't have love

他认为如果你没有同时具备这三要素
if you don't have all three of these elements.

你并没有体验到爱
Intimacy is the feeling of closeness,

亲密就是亲近的感觉
of connectedness with someone, of bonding.

与某人沟通相互结合
Operationally, you could think of intimacy as you share secrets,

从行为上说亲密就是你们分享秘密
You share information with this person that

你只和这个人分享信息
you don't share with anybody else.

而不和别人分享
Okay. That's really what intimacy is,

这就是亲密
the bond that comes from sharing information

结合源于你们之间信息的分享
that isn't shared with other with many other people.

而这些秘密是你不会与他人所分享的
Second element is passion.

第二个因素是激情