来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：心理学导论 第9集》

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  but you're not physically attracted
  但你并没有生理上的吸引
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  and there's no particular commitment to maintaining this
  也没有想要长期维持这种关系
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  for a long period of time.
  的某种承诺
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  Now, what if you're not intimate,
  如果你并未感受到亲密
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  you're not committed,
  也没作出承诺
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  but you're passionate; you feel that sexual arousal.
  但却充满激情 你感到性唤起
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  This is what Sternberg would call infatuation.
  这就是斯滕伯格所称的"迷恋"
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  And that term probably works for you too,
  这个术语可能同样适用于你
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  infatuated love, and this is love at first sight.
  痴迷的爱 也就是一见钟情
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  "I don't know you,
  "我不认识你
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  We've never shared any secrets
  我们从未分享过任何秘密
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  because I don't know you,
  因为我们并不相识