come to my valentine's day lecture,

参加我的情人节演讲
listen carefully to the big three and the more interesting four,

仔细听三大点和有趣的四小点
and then go out there and put them into practice?

然后将它们实际运用于课堂之外的人
It feels a little bit like the--like we're trying to pass on

这感觉有点像我们试图传递
an acquired characteristic,

一种后天习得的特性
Which is a little bit counter to darwinian theory

这与达尔文理论有点相悖
but if somehow you could design a proclivity for learning this kind of material,

但如果你能形成学习这类知识的习惯
evolution might indeed favor it.

进化也许真的会偏爱于你
I can tell you this much.

我能告诉你
It would make the several thousands social psychologists in this world

这会让世界上的无数社会心理学家
very happy and proud of their field,

为他们的研究感到无比兴奋和自豪
if that turned out to be true.

如果这是真的