but then I was worried about upsetting her.

但我又怕这样会使她失望
We ended up negotiating

我们最终协商
and she was allowed to buy snack on Fridays,

我只允许她周五买一些零食
but I was really uncomfortable.

但我感到非常不安
I wanted to go to the school but I thought,

我想去学校但转而又想
gosh she's only been at school for a week,

她才上学一周
I should probably not go marching in there right away.

我大概不应该这么早去学校
I just decided to pace myself

于是我决定调整自己
and I was going to wait and see what happened.

等等看接下来会发生什么
Well then, by December I got a notice that they were having

接着十二月之前我收到了通知
a family event featuring a cookie eating contest as a fundraiser,

他们将举办家庭吃饼干比赛来筹集资金
and I basically just decided that that was the last straw,

我觉得这已经达到了我的忍耐限度