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It's another form of competition,
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the competition between these two sources of values,
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the community at large versus the individual and the family.
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This kind of tension doesn't make things clear;
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the rules are not absolute,
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and not everybody fits into a pigeon hole.
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It is not easy to say,what is the right thing,or
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what is the wrong thing.
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All of that creates confusion,problems,
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but also,conflict, tension,competition,all those things
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but there is also create a degree of freedom
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which doesn't permit the typical despotic kind of culture