来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：心理学导论 第13集》

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  I know my mom and dad had a huge role in my life.
  我知道我父母对我的人生影响重大
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  That's why I'm so happy and successful,"
  所以我才幸福 成功"
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  then other people said,
  其他人就说了
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  "That's why I'm so miserable and screwed up,"
  "就因为这 我才痛苦 失败"
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  but either way
  但无论哪一种
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  blame it on Mom and Dad or thank Mom and Dad.
  怪罪父母或是感恩父母
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  And you might think you know.
  我们会按照我们明白的方式来思考
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  When you become famous
  你功成名就
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  and you stand up and you get your awards
  站起来领奖时
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  maybe you'll thank your mom and dad.
  你会感谢妈妈 感谢爸爸
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  When you go to your therapist
  而当你跑去咨询室
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  and explain why you're so screwed up
  哭诉你为什么这么失败时