"My boy or girlfriend left me, so therefore I'd rather kill myself."

"我的恋人抛弃了我我还不如去死算了"
And then they say,

然后他们会考虑到
"Well I can't really do this to Mom." right?

"我这么做太对不起我妈妈了"
"I cannot disappoint my parents." right?

"我不能让我的父母失望"
So therefore you are not--you cannot act egoistically. Right?

因此你不能以自我为中心
You belong to a group, and because the tightness,

你属于一个团体你和团体的紧密联系
the solidarity with the group prevents you to commit suicide.

团体的归属感阻止你自杀
So in order to act egoistically means that you don't care about others,

利己主义意味着你不关心他人
Or you care first of all about yourself as such.

或者总是先考虑自己
Well the solidarity can be different.

归属感的来源非常广泛
It can be religion, it can be family, or it can be the society.

可以是宗教信仰家庭或者社会
And let me speak to this.

让我这么说吧