They both enjoy making love but they decide not to do it again.

他们很享受这个过程但是不会再做了
They keep that night a special secret

他们保守着这个夜晚的特别秘密
which makes them feel even closer to each other. What do you think about that?

这让他们觉得彼此更亲近了你们怎么看待这件事呢
Was it okay for them to make love? Who says yes? Good.

他们之间可以发生性行为吗谁觉得可以呢好的
I know that some people would say yes, shoot up their hands,

我知道你们中有些人会说可以举起手
and they look around in astonishment that no one else is with them.

然后惊异的环顾四周发现没人和他们想的一样
Who says no? Okay. Who is not sure? You're not sure.

谁觉得不可以好的谁是不确定的你们居然不确定
That's the weirdest of all. Haidt finds that the distribution even among this--

这是最诡异的海德特发现关于这问题的分布
Look,If you go home and you ask your parents, they say,

如果你回家问你父母他们会说
"Ew. What is--What are you learning at Yale?"

"这是什么呀你就在耶鲁学这个"
This is a very unusual culture and where some people will say it's okay.

只有非常不寻常的文化下人们才会觉得这是可以的
What Haidt finds is most people say it doesn't

海德特发现绝大多数人觉得不行