my marriage years ago.

就是因为我不能怀孕
Ah, but, you know, that was for the best.

不过那样做的是做好的选择
It wasn't a good situation.

当时我们夫妻的情况不好
Yeah. Sorry.

抱歉
I'm just rambling, but, uh, you know,

我不知道自己在说什么但你知道
I just accepted that motherhood wasn't gonna happen for me.

我刚接受了自己不会成为母亲的现实
So this was a really big shock.

所以这对我来说太意外了
The truth is, I can't stop feeling like this is a gift.

但我发自真心地觉得这是上帝恩赐的礼物
I understand that it is complicated

我能理解情况很复杂
and that we're coming at it from two completely different places.

而且我们对这件事的思考角度完全不同
Not that different.

没有那么不同
I didn't expect to be a father at this age either.

我也没想到这把年纪还能当爸爸