来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：现代社会理论基础 第8集 第8集》

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  So he said this is even worse than slavery.
  所以说婚姻之恶更甚于奴隶制度
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  And here he kind of elaborates on this issue--
  就这一论点穆勒还加以升华
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  that it is not simply the obedience what man wants,
  即男性不仅要求女性顺从
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  but also their love.
  还需要她们的爱
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  And usually these relationships were in the nineteenth century,
  这种不均等的关系在十九世纪非常常见
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  and in many cases even in the twenty-first century, asymmetrical.
  很多情况甚至在二十一世纪亦是如此
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  Man probably does not feel as much obliged to express love
  相比之下 男性可能并不如女性般
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  towards their wives than they expect their wives to express love towards the man.
  有着对其配偶示爱的必要性
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  Unfortunately I think there are still men like this.
  令人沮丧的是我认为这样的男性仍然存在
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  Okay, so that's I think very provocative,
  好了 这就是在我看来充满争议
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  very important statements,
  同时又十分关键的
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  written in the mid-nineteenth century.
  著于十九世纪中期的论断