Okay? I freaked out.

那段时间我完全崩溃了
I have spent some time in therapy,

经过一段时间的治疗
and I have worked on myself.

现在已经好很多了
And I'm in a completely different place now.

我现在已经脱胎换骨了
Really?

真的吗
- Look, I am not a natural at this. - Well, nobody's a natural.

-我没照顾小孩的天赋 -没人生来就会的
Parenting is hard, and it takes hard work.

身为父母责任重大
I know, and I'm not trying to underestimate that at all.

我也从来没想过要推卸责任啊
I just mean to say that you are really good at it.

你是个称职的父亲
I feel like a complete failure next to you.

跟你比起来我觉得自己特别失败
Look, Jen, it's...

听着珍
Parenting is a skill, okay?

育儿是一门学问