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I do not expect the cook to prepare me a good meal
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because I need a good meal
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and I expect the cook to like me.
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I want him to cook a good meal
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because then I will give a tip.
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It is in the self-interest of the waiter to
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serve me well and serve me good food.
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Otherwise I will not go back again
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and I will not give a tip.
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I will punish.
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It is appealing to the self-interest of the person for
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whom I expect something, and not is benevolence.