来自《耶鲁大学开放课程：现代社会理论基础 第7集 第7集》

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  but we want people to take advantage of this.
  而是我们希望别人能够利用它
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  This is an interesting issue, by the way,
  这很有意思
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  even in everyday life.
  甚至在日常生活中
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  I'm sure in this room there are people
  我确定现在这个教室里
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  who think about this differently.
  一定有持不同观点的同学
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  Just to give you a very personalized example.
  讲一个我自己的例子
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  My wife occasionally tells me,
  我妻子有时会和我说
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  "This person is not a good friend of yours because
  "这个人并非良友
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  this person only calls you when that person needs you."
  因为他只在需要你的时候才和你联系"
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  And this does happen.
  这种事情确实会有
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  And my answer always is--
  而我总是这么回答
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  and I think in this way,
  我认为应该这么想