both sons went through a phase

我的两个儿子在性器官期时
where they explicitly said they wanted to marry Mommy.

都曾明确地说过要娶他们的妈妈
And me – if something bad happened to me

对我来说如果真有什么不幸
that wouldn't be the worst thing in the world.

也没有比儿子们弑父娶母更糟糕的事情了
So, there's this.

就是这样
But now it gets a little bit aggressive.

但这时会出现一些攻击性
So, the idea is the child determines that he's going to kill his father.

男孩决心要去杀掉父亲
Every three- and four-year-old boy thinks this.

每个三四岁大的男孩都这么想过
But then because children, according to Freud,

但是据弗洛伊德的理论
don't have a good sense of the boundary

由于儿童无法很好地
between their mind and the world,

在心理和现实之间划清界限
which is a problem – the problem is they don't –

这就是个问题