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but I want us to pay attention to
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what exactly obligations of gratitude require us to do.
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In particular, it's important to bear in mind
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that you owe the person who gives you a gift something only
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when what he's giving you, or she's giving you, is a gift.
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Imagine that somebody, I'll call him The Bully,
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gives you a pie and says, "Eat it."
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But it's not an apple pie.
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It's not a cherry pie.
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It's some gross, disgusting,
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slime pie, some rotting slime pie,
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and he cuts out a big piece and he says,